I can’t stand to look at Christmas trees this year.
I love Christmas with all its twinkling lights, and the tree in my house has always been one of my favorite Christmas decorations. But this year because of my vestibular migraines the beauty of the lights within my Christmas tree’s branches feel like poison to my brain. All it takes is about 10 minutes of looking at or even toward a lit Christmas tree to wreck my whole day.
Before this Christmas I never knew there was a such a thing as migraines that you can’t feel yet will cause you to have to retreat from certain types of lighting, sounds, smells, and activity or you will end up with your head feeling like it’s pulsing and being pressed in from all sides, causing you to feel so dizzy you can’t think and want to puke your guts out!
I love our Christmas tree and love all its glitter and white lights and no matter how much it bothers me I insist on keeping it turned on every evening just as we always have. But I haven’t been able to enjoy it this year and have been pretty much staying out of the room it’s in or I sit with my back to it.
To be honest, even though I’ve tried my best to be joyful this has really caused me a lot of sadness this year.
But then today I discovered something as I was passing through the room with the Christmas tree in it. As I was walking through the room I had my eyes averted away from the tree so as not to see it when suddenly they landed on our nativity set. The moment I saw it I suddenly realized that our nativity has a light in it and it’s always on every day all day AND this is the one lighted Christmas decoration that does NOT cause me to get nauseous when I look at it!
I found it very interesting that the one Christmas light in my house that I actually CAN look at is the one light that is shining over baby Jesus lying in the manger. Could it be that maybe Christmas is still Christmas even without a beautifully lighted Christmas tree?? Well of course it is! What really makes it Christmas is that Jesus was born on Christmas and the Christmas holiday is supposed to be a celebration of HIM. Jesus came to save the world on this day all those years ago and He is the one true light of the world. This also made me think of the shepherds on their way to see him on that night so long ago when he was born. Under the cover of night, they were led by a bright shining star to a baby who was the very first Christmas gift ever given to us.
Just like God used the bright and shining light of my nativity to lead me to see him among all this junk I’ve been going through this year.
Jesus is what Christmas is really all about and with or without Christmas trees, Jesus will always be here.
I think not being able to look at my Christmas tree this year actually caused me to receive a very important gift. The gift to see what’s truly most important – that Jesus is the only light I will ever need.
Without Jesus, there would have never been a Christmas in the first place. Jesus is the light of the world, and we ALL need him more than anything.
He is the greatest gift we have ever received.
My wish for you today is that your Christmas be filled with all of the joy, love, and peace that comes from Jesus. He is the one and the only true reason for the season may you see him as you go about your day today and every day. Have Merry Christmas!
4 thoughts on “I Can’t Stand to Look at Christmas trees – Don’t let the title fool you, I love Christmas!”
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Terri. Jesus is who we should be focusing on this time of year and always. Praying 2019 will find your good health and sight returning.
Thank you Juanita, I hope you and your family had a good Christmas.
Merry Christmas, Terri
Thanks Wally, I hope you and your family had a good Christmas.