Unwanted Visitors at Church!

There has been an unwanted family that keeps visiting my church the past two Sundays. The reason they are not wanted at our church is because of several things… they are loud, messy, and, to be honest, they are really just outright annoying. When we open the door of the church there they are, waiting in the hope that someone will let them into the building. Our door greeters also have been trying their best to chase them away but despite repeated efforts the unwanted family still keeps coming back again and again.

I was working at the church the other day when suddenly I heard someone knocking at the unlocked door. “Why would someone be knocking on an unlocked door?” I wondered. The doors are glass so usually I can see who’s at the door from my office but for some strange reason, I couldn’t see anyone that day.

I walked over to the door to see who it was and surprise! surprise! there stood the unwanted visitors from the past Sunday looking through the glass at me!


I have to say this bunch is quite persistent! Later that morning our youth pastor came in and I heard him shooing them away.  But when I left to go home there they were again right back to waiting by the front door!

guine 2

This whole Guinea fowl thing has had me wondering why no matter how much we try to chase them away they still keep coming back?

Would I keep coming back if someone chased me away?


Like I said before these Guineas are messy…just a tiny bit like some of us people can be. Sometimes church people tend to treat people in the same way the Guineas were treated.. shooed away because they are messy. When I say messy I am not talking about messy as in the mess those Guineas were leaving behind on our porch (just use your imagination). What I’m talking about is the kind of messy as in a messed up messy life kind of person.

I remember the first time I slipped into the back row of my church, my life was a mess at the time and I wasn’t sure if God would want someone who was as messed up as me to be in His church. Even more so I worried that the people who attended the church wouldn’t want me there either.

I am so thankful that the church God chose for me didn’t care how messy of a mess I was; they also didn’t care about what I wore or any of the other messy stuff I brought in the door with me. What they did care about was me… They cared about me for who I was at that time of my life. They allowed me to come into the church on my own terms and just loved me, letting God take care of all the messy stuff.

I have been a member of that same church for almost 6 years now, and I can still be pretty messed up at times, but they still allow me in and the crazy thing is after a while they even hired me as an employee.

What would have happened had those people not wanted me to come in because I didn’t look or act like they thought I should? What would have happened had they made me feel like I was too messed up to be there? Would I have came back to church?

I was lost at that time of my life and because of the people in my church showing me the love of Jesus I stayed in church and I’m not lost anymore.

All of this along with my pastor’s sermon this past Sunday (Kangaroo Court) got me to wondering – how do I look to people who are outside of the church doors?

Do I behave in a way that says to people, “I’d love to share with you what was shared with me,” or do I say, “I don’t want you in my church because you’re too messed up?”

How do we as a church act? Do we chase people off before they even get in the door like we did with the Guineas?

Jesus didn’t come for the people who have it all together.  He didn’t come for perfect people (nobody’s perfect by the way).

I may offend some when I say this but I am gonna say it anyway…”I think we are all messed up in some way or other, some of us are just way better at hiding it than others.”

Jesus came for all of us. He came for people like me and you and those who are still outside our church doors. Those people who are outside the doors of our churches are now the responsibility of those of us who do know Jesus, it’s our job to invite them in.

So… with that said…who do you know who might be knocking at the door but may be feeling too messy to come in? This weekend let’s invite at least one person to come to church with us this Sunday. Maybe they won’t take us up on the invitation, but just imagine what could happen if they did.

Oh, sing to the Lord a new song!
Sing to the Lord, all the earth.
Sing to the Lord, bless His name;
Proclaim the good news of His salvation from day to day.
Declare His glory among the nations!
His wonders among all peoples. Psalm 96:1-3

Before you leave here today be sure to check out these links.  Each one of them inspired me in some way and I hope they do the same for you.

A great song – Call it Grace by Unspoken

A precious Photo along with a great quote – Globetrotting from Lightroom Blog

A really good podcast – Walking Through Lifes Open Doors from Focus on the Family

A story you for sure don’t want to miss reading  – I want to Be a FireFighter from Compassion Blog

Have a great weekend,

Terri Siebert

12 thoughts on “Unwanted Visitors at Church!

  1. Freedomborn ... Aussie Christian Focus says:

    Thanks T a very good message and it’s very True, People have been chased away by unloving attitudes from some who are intolerant of others shortcomings, perhaps you would like to read the Post I did about those who judge others weaknesses critically, I will leave a link for you.

    Judging Weaknesses- https://freedomborn.wordpress.com/2012/03/24/their-pointing-at-me-im-a-difficult-person/

    It’s True we can never be perfect in a worldly way, it keeps changing anyway but we are to aim to be Perfected in Love, as we see confirmed in the Scriptures below and if it is impossible God would not ask us to do so but sadly today this is not taught in some Churches so people keep getting chased away.

    Matthew 5:48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in Heaven is Perfect.

    Hebrews 6:1 Therefore leaving the principles of the doctrine of Christ, let us go on unto Perfection; not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works, and of faith toward God,

    2 Corinthians 7:1 Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, Perfecting Holiness in the fear of God.

    2 Timothy 3:16-17 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be Perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.

    2 Timothy 2:19-21 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are His. And, let every one that nameth the Name of Christ depart from iniquity. But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour. If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the Master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.

    1John 4:17-19 Herein is our Love made Perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as He is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in Love; but Perfect Love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in Love. We Love Him, because He first Loved us.

    2 Corinthians 13:11 Finally, brethren, farewell. Be Perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in Peace; and the God of Love and Peace shall be with you.

    Christian Love Always – Anne.


    • Terri says:

      Thank you Anne for sharing the link and also the scripture. I am looking forward to the day when everyone lives in harmony and not judge one another but instead love like we are loved.


  2. Susan Irene Fox says:

    ”I think we are all messed up in some way or other, some of us are just way better at hiding it than others.” How true, and yet our tendency to value our ‘messiness’ and grade it compared to others saddens me. Mess is mess and the only One who can clean up our mess is Jesus.

    Brilliant post, Terri.


  3. Kristi Ann says:

    Awe So cute of our True God’s Creation of His Animals!! Our True God Created Animals First in Genesis, then He Created us in His Own Image, He Loves us all forevermore through His Son Jesus ( Yeshua ) Christ!! Amen!!

    Great Post Sister in Christ Jesus ( Yeshua ) Terri!!

    Love Always and Shalom, YSIC o/

    Kristi Ann


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